I always wondered whether men and women were really that different. Other than the obvious physical differences, are there really so many thing's that make men and women not get along?
I mean, let's look carefully. Point #1 - Men, in general, are insensitive. Ask almost any girl and she would reply that half of the time her bf/other half doesnt notice (or pretends not to, which is worse) that she is upset. Girls on the other hand, are very intune with other people's feelings (this of course, is also generally speaking). They can tell when their partners are upset, or angry about something.
Point #2 - Men always say straight up what they want. Women, on the other hand, beat around the bush and give hints, hoping to god that they're man will get what is it they actually want. And then if he doesnt get it, we get upset. I must admit, i dont understand this either, but i am definitely guilty of doing this. I dont know what it is about feeling a greater sense of satisfaction when he actually does something that i wanted him to do all along, but WITHOUT ASKING. Its called initiative boys, learn the word.
Point #3 - Men are more sexually active, and the woman always feels drained as she has to "give in". ok, i totally disagree with this one. Sexually active people depends on the person, not the gender. There are such things as women perverts and molesters too you know
Point #4 - Men always have to "save face", hence they dont engage in public displays of affection. ok, i think people making out in the train is super gross too, and that's def not what i meant. But holding hands and putting your arm around her shoulder wont hurt you know. In fact, personally, i like it even more when the man im with does it, coz it shows that he's proud to be walking with me, showing everyone that im "his".
Point #5 - When it comes to long term relationships, men have a way of ignoring you and treating you like you're not there. Seriously, it doesnt show much marriage potential. I mean, how are you to prove that you can commit to ONE person till death do you part, when you cant even manage to entertain your own gf when you gusy are still dating? Just one tip for guys out there, we girls LOVE attention from you. No matter what any girl might confess to you, about how she feel's a nuisance if you buy thing's for you, dont believe it! Trust me, every single girl wants to be showered with love and affection. Every. Single. Girl.
Maybe men are from Mars, and Women from Venus. But hey, we're on Earth, which means we are both at the mid way point!
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so true.. i totally agree on this!
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