We all have embarrassing ex boyfriend's that we will never admit we were with, ex boyfriend's that were super lousy and we complain about till this day, and of course, the all famous "one who got away" ex boyfriend.
Different people react differently to break ups. Of course, it also depends on the situations and circumstances in which u broke up in. There are many kind of ex's. The psychotic and never wants to move on kind, the.... eh wait. I seem to only know the psychotic kind. Why you might ask? Well, the reason is fairly simple. Because my boyfriend of almost 3 years now, has a PSYCHOTIC BITCH of an ex girlfriend!!
Rough background info on them, they were together for 7 years (insert gasp here), and already got engaged (insert 2nd gasp here). However, he broke it off with her when his own nephew saw her outside with another guy (insert kwang kwang kwang here).
They broke up in april, i think, and me and him got together in sep. And i tell you, the number of times i have heard about her are uncountable. Not only do our names rhyme, so people tend to stutter when calling me, but i even used to see lots of photos of her around his house (dont worry, they were all donated to my good friend the rubbish chute!)
At the beginning i tried to be the "understanding" gf.. I mean come one la, they were together for 7 years, they're bound to have some sort of friendship left right? Wrong. She was out to get him back. And she didnt even bother hiding it! She still put up photos of them on friendster (last time no FB ok, so dont laff), and commented on his wall with stupid shit like "10 reasons why i love you". Mind you, she already knew at this point that i was with him!!! The nerve she had.
So of course i had to step in and do something. Easiest thing for me to do was give him an ultimatum, me or her. He chose me over that stupid bitch and i made him promise that he would make an effort to erase any presence of her from our lives. (Trust me, even mentioning her name would earn him a super evil stare and i would get super mad after that)
I never thought i would be the jealous gf kind, but boy, i was more than jealous. I tell you there was one point in time i became obsessed with trying to erase her from our life. I have good reasons to be that way though! She will never fail to try and come up with a way to either text him or email him. Sometimes its something stupid like forwarding a chain email, or texting him happy birthday. Now tell me i dont have a reason to be mad.
After being together for some time, things have slowly died down abit. She is already engaged and soon to be married to someone else. Proof that she is psycho? Her fiance is my bf's brother's friend. She just had to go for someone in the same circle of people.
And i know im being abit petty about this last part, but it irks to me to death that now she has started adding my bf's siblings and friend's on her FB. I know it shouldnt bother me but it just does. And if anyone else was in my position, i know it would bother u too.
Sigh, so what kind of ex gf are you???
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i stumbled upon ur blog sarah. i like ur honesty. i face the same things to but im just not good at describing situations. at first i couldnt care and was being ignorant but like u mentioned, the person become persistent and even more persistent. i felt very disheartened. agitated. but what to do? guess she's just very thick face or hard in the head. boh pian lor. they'd feel what we feel when they get into our shoes dear :) hope things are going better for you.
ReplyDelete-zakiah ( ur brother's gf ) :)