What really went down on my birthday

So if you follow me on tweeter, you might or might not have read my super emo tweets on my bday, saying that it was probably gonna be the worst if things didn't look up. Well, i would like to share my reasons for tweeting such things, and what actually happened.

So my bday fell on a monday, 12th of april. The Saturday n Sunday before that i had a good time celebrating with my family and was looking forward to the monday to spend with friend's and the bf.

Sunday night he called me at midnight to wish me, but we only talked for a few minutes coz he was out with his friends. Its ok, its just one night right. I thought he would ask me to meet him in the morning the next day coz he had to go to office to get some stuff anyway. But no, he said he'll meet me after lunch coz he already promised to bring along his friend to work, coz they wanted to go buy helicopter parts after that.

Ok fine, its just morning right? We still have the whole day ahead of us. Lunch then became afternoon. He said he had to delay things, and that he would just pick me up at 6 from my place. At this point i was already getting super aggitated coz i mean, come on. Its my birthday! Cant you save your things and do them on any other day of the week!

But still, at least he's picking me up right? Sigh. I called him at 5.45 just to check whether he was on his way and guess what? He told me that he'll meet me at Eunos MRT at 7.30 instead. I ask him why and he says coz he's tired to drive all the way to jurong ^*&%^$$%#%$@$&%^(&()*()&*%

I was so angry i couldnt stop myself from asking "and just what were you doing from just now that made you so tired?" He nonchalantly replied that he was fixing his effing helicopter. That was when i couldnt take it no more. HELLO?? On MY birthday??? I just told him oh and hung up he phone. I called my mum sobbing i tell you.

Who wouldnt be upset? I was so tempted to tell him that i didnt want to go out anymore, so i could hide under the covers and wallow in self pity. But of course i didnt. I was curious to see how much worse it could get, and was planning to remind him everyday i meet him so that he suffers. Heh

I reach eunos and he STILL makes me wait. Eh not 5 min ok, HALF AND HOUR. At this point im more upset than angry and choose to give him the silent treatment when he finally pulls up. Apologising, he says that we have to head down to his friend's shop coz one of her glass door panels broke. Angry i ask, "her husband cannot help meh must ask you". Thats how irritated i was. I was even irritated at his friend for even asking him to help knowing it was my birthday!

Selfish, i know. But all the frustration from the whole day was getting to me. When we reached the shop i told him to make it quick and to tell them that we were in a rush to leave for dinner, and to not ask anyone along coz i didnt really feel like entertaining company.

When we finally left, his other friend called saying he needs help jump starting his car. He was at Costa Sands Pasir Ris and couldnt go home coz his car wont start. Seriously???? Wah i was really upset and thought that it was not my day. Maybe these are signs to as how the whole year will be.

Upon arriving at Costa Sands, his friend was nowhere in sight. Wah, ask people for help and you cant even bother to wait by your car? Bf persuaded me to go get him from the chalet. Aiyo, i kept asking him? I didnt want to go coz i knew his his friend's might be around but he kept on insisting!

Some of it might have guessed it, but not me. I was so mad that i was oblivious to everything. When we reached his "friend's" chalet, i suddenly heard people singing happy birthday. Eh wait, i know those people! And yada yada yada.. you know how the rest goes!

At the end of the day, i was sincerely touched by his effort and all the thought put into it. I mean, if you know my bf personally, u def know that he's not a heart and flowers kinda guy. And surprises are DEF not his thing. But for him to do all that for me really means alot. <3>

You can see me hiding behind baby coz i was damn paiseh already

Maria, my confidante

Did i mention he got me 2 cakes? :)

All i can say is he better watch out for his birthday!!

A case of the ex

We all have embarrassing ex boyfriend's that we will never admit we were with, ex boyfriend's that were super lousy and we complain about till this day, and of course, the all famous "one who got away" ex boyfriend.

Different people react differently to break ups. Of course, it also depends on the situations and circumstances in which u broke up in. There are many kind of ex's. The psychotic and never wants to move on kind, the.... eh wait. I seem to only know the psychotic kind. Why you might ask? Well, the reason is fairly simple. Because my boyfriend of almost 3 years now, has a PSYCHOTIC BITCH of an ex girlfriend!!

Rough background info on them, they were together for 7 years (insert gasp here), and already got engaged (insert 2nd gasp here). However, he broke it off with her when his own nephew saw her outside with another guy (insert kwang kwang kwang here).

They broke up in april, i think, and me and him got together in sep. And i tell you, the number of times i have heard about her are uncountable. Not only do our names rhyme, so people tend to stutter when calling me, but i even used to see lots of photos of her around his house (dont worry, they were all donated to my good friend the rubbish chute!)

At the beginning i tried to be the "understanding" gf.. I mean come one la, they were together for 7 years, they're bound to have some sort of friendship left right? Wrong. She was out to get him back. And she didnt even bother hiding it! She still put up photos of them on friendster (last time no FB ok, so dont laff), and commented on his wall with stupid shit like "10 reasons why i love you". Mind you, she already knew at this point that i was with him!!! The nerve she had.

So of course i had to step in and do something. Easiest thing for me to do was give him an ultimatum, me or her. He chose me over that stupid bitch and i made him promise that he would make an effort to erase any presence of her from our lives. (Trust me, even mentioning her name would earn him a super evil stare and i would get super mad after that)

I never thought i would be the jealous gf kind, but boy, i was more than jealous. I tell you there was one point in time i became obsessed with trying to erase her from our life. I have good reasons to be that way though! She will never fail to try and come up with a way to either text him or email him. Sometimes its something stupid like forwarding a chain email, or texting him happy birthday. Now tell me i dont have a reason to be mad.

After being together for some time, things have slowly died down abit. She is already engaged and soon to be married to someone else. Proof that she is psycho? Her fiance is my bf's brother's friend. She just had to go for someone in the same circle of people.

And i know im being abit petty about this last part, but it irks to me to death that now she has started adding my bf's siblings and friend's on her FB. I know it shouldnt bother me but it just does. And if anyone else was in my position, i know it would bother u too.

Sigh, so what kind of ex gf are you???

Wishlist

So coz my birthday is coming up in less than a week, close friend's and family around me have been asking what i want for my birthday, and how i wanna celebrate. Got me thinking too, coz as my family might know, i'm really big on birthday's. i swear to god, i love everything about them. it doesn't even have to be mine. i even love planning birthday's for others. so much that i think if all else fails, i think i should just become a birthday party planner! haha. anyways



1) Def want a cake this year, think the last time i had one was..... wait a minute, i cant even remember when!



2) Want a good family sit down dinner



3) Expecting the bf to plan something, i dont want to be the one who call's the shots for once



4) Hoping close friend's will have something planned.. maybe dinner and drinks? And unlike other years, i hope those who promise to come actually do come in the end



5) Gifts of course! Looking at some new tshirts, bodyshop makeup and goodies, a new bag and slippers! actually i really really want a camera la, but i think its too much of an expensive gift to ask for



6) To get drunk! come on la, i didnt event get drunk on my 18th, i so want to get drunk on my 20th. training for my 21st ya know. haha


7) Maybe its too much to ask for but im hoping that i get at least one surprise. haha


ok im gonna randomly stop at 7 coz i really cant think of anything else. ahahha... anyway, will update with pics. laters!!